Small kind things, and where they travel.
Not grand gestures. Specific, doable things — with the reason each one actually lands, which is usually the part nobody explains.
One thing, today
Let a child help badly
Doing it yourself is faster every single time, and the accumulated effect of that is a teenager who cannot cook.
- Half an hour
- Free
- A friend
Not this one? Three questions and we will pick, or browse the whole library.
Every dot is a kind thing somebody actually did and recorded — 30 acts across 5 countries. Where they have reached
“It was good to see the positive reaction from the kid that I was willing to stop and let him finish the sentence and hear him out.”
Do one thing, then hand it on
A chain is a single act passed from person to person. It is the only thing here that grows without anybody organizing it.
Do something for somebody
Anything at all. Record it when it is done — one tap, no account.
Give them the code
A link, or a card. Theirs to use or ignore, and nothing chases them.
Watch where it goes
Everyone who does the same thing and adds themselves is another stop.
Chains you have started →How they work
3 chains are being passed from person to person right now, and the longest has reached 3 people.
Happening now
Someone did Let a child finish the sentence
yesterday
Raj in Seattle did Write an actual letter
Wrote a letter to my friend cherishing our friendship
yesterday
Someone did Buy two and leave one
happiness all-around
yesterday
Someone in Austin did Learn the names of your child's friends
It led to hearing stories about her friends... good bonding time
2 days ago
Someone did Write the review for the small place
2 days ago
Someone did Be a reliable adult for a child who is not yours
2 days ago
There is a great deal more
Or by what today allows
What people are doing this week
Let a child finish the sentence
Adults complete children's sentences constantly, and the child learns that their version was not worth waiting for.
5 minutesFreeA friend4 people did this
Leave the accessible toilet alone
It is not the spare one when there is a queue. For some people it is the only one in the building.
5 minutesFreeA stranger3 people did this
Bring the trash cans back up
Sixty seconds of your afternoon, and someone comes home to one less thing.
5 minutesFreeA neighbor2 people did this
Start with one of these
Be a reliable adult for a child who is not yours
Every resilient childhood account includes at least one adult outside the family who was consistently there.
OngoingFreeA neighbor1 person did this
Offer to take another child as well
You are already doing the trip. One more in the car is the cheapest help a parent can give another parent.
Half an hourFreeA neighbor1 person did this
Praise the effort where the result was bad
A young person who worked hard and failed will be told the result was disappointing by everyone else.
5 minutesFreeA friend1 person did this
There is one email a month — a themed month, a few things for the situations you care about, and one sentence somebody wrote. No images, no tracking, and a link in every edition that erases your address completely.