Three things

Here are 3

Pick one. Each takes about as long as it says.

• Tell a carer what you noticed

  Carers watch someone decline daily and lose sight of who they were. An outsider's observation gives that back.

  5 minutesFreeA caregiver

• Invite the child everyone stops inviting

  Parents of disabled children describe the birthday party invitations drying up as the loneliest part.

  5 minutesFreeA caregiver

• Talk to the person, not over them

  People who are ill or disabled are routinely discussed in the third person while sitting in the room.

  5 minutesFreeA caregiver