Let one corner of it go wild
Stop mowing a square yard. Leave the log where it fell. Neatness is the expensive part, for everything that is not you.
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Why it lands
A tidy outdoor space is close to sterile for insects, and insects are what everything else eats. The useful intervention is not planting anything — it is stopping. An unmown corner, a pile of dead wood and a patch of nettles support more life than a whole border of bedding plants, and cost nothing but the appearance of effort. This is kindness by omission, which is unglamorous and unusually effective.
How
Pick the least-used corner and stop cutting it. Leave fallen wood in a pile rather than bagging it. Skip the autumn tidy on one bed and leave the seed heads standing through winter — that is when they are worth most. If you share the space, say what you are doing so it reads as deliberate.
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