Buy the work rather than praising it
Artists, writers and makers get a great deal of encouragement and very little income. One is a great deal more useful.
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Encouragement is abundant and free, which is exactly why it is worth so little to someone deciding whether they can keep doing the work. A purchase is the only feedback that is unambiguous — it says you valued it enough to give something up. For small independent makers a handful of sales is the difference between continuing and stopping, and most of their admirers have never bought anything.
How
Buy directly where you can, since platforms take a substantial cut. Buy at full price rather than waiting for a sale. Tell them what you did with it afterwards, which is the part they will remember longer than the money.
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