Put it back exactly where it was
In the home of a blind or partially sighted person, a tidied object is a lost object.
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Someone who cannot see navigates by memory and absolute consistency — the mug is in that spot, the chair is at that angle. A helpful visitor who tidies, closes a door that was open or moves a bag has removed information the person depends on, and they will not find it again without asking. It is one of the most common complaints and one of the easiest things to avoid.
How
Put everything back precisely and say out loud if you moved anything. Do not rearrange or tidy without asking. Say when you enter and leave a room, and do not leave doors half open.
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