Read the form out loud for someone
Around one in six adults reads below the level most official forms are written at.
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Difficulty with reading is common, invisible and carefully hidden — people develop elaborate strategies rather than admit it, including forgetting their glasses or taking forms away to fill in later. The cost is missed appointments, unclaimed money and unsigned agreements. Offering to go through something together, without naming why, lets someone accept help without disclosing anything.
How
Offer it as the normal thing: “These are awful, shall we go through it together?” Read it aloud and let them answer. Never comment on their reading, and do not mention it to anyone else afterwards.
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