Visit the resident nobody comes for
Every care home has people who receive no visitors at all. Staff know exactly who they are.
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Visitor numbers in residential care are wildly uneven: some residents have daily family and some have had nobody for years, usually because the family has died or moved rather than through any falling-out. Staff will tell you what a regular visitor does to somebody's mood, and to how the rest of the home treats them. It is one of the few situations where an hour from a stranger is straightforwardly valuable.
How
Go through the home's manager or a recognized befriending scheme rather than turning up — they will match you with someone and handle the checks. Commit to a regular slot; an inconsistent visitor is worse than none. Bring something to do rather than relying on conversation.
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