Do one shopping run for three households
A single trip that collects three lists costs you ten extra minutes and saves three people an afternoon.
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For anyone without a car, with limited mobility or with small children, a supermarket trip consumes most of a day. The marginal cost of adding someone else's list to a trip you are making anyway is close to zero, while the benefit to them is measured in hours. It is one of the clearest efficiency gains available between neighbors and it almost never gets organized.
How
Offer on a fixed day so people can plan: “I go Saturday morning — send me a list by Friday night.” Take payment by transfer afterwards rather than handling cash and receipts. Buy exactly what is on the list, including the brand.
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